I haven’t found my ‘passion’. I’m not sure I believe that everyone has one great passion in life, but I still like the thought of dedicating myself to something I find inspiring and fulfilling. How can I find that part of myself, and how, in this world of endless choice, can I trust that it’s the right thing once I have found it?

Philosopher's reply

Dear Lily,

An intellectual or political passion is not that different from a romantic one. We don’t fall in love with another person for a ‘reason’. We’re magnetically drawn to them, and can often only ‘justify’ our love after the fact.

However, I do think there are things we can do to put ourselves in love’s way. Sometimes when those we regard highly describe what’s so great about a film or what they enjoy about their community activism, it can prime us to see it in a new light – as interesting or beautiful – when we watch the film or attend a volunteer event for ourselves. We can be inspired when we let others share their passions with us.

- Lesley Jamieson

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Lesley Jamieson

Queen's University (Kingston), Canada

Iris Murdoch makes philosophy answerable to what our lives are like. She invites us to step back from theories of mind, language or morals; to look closely at what it's like to try to formulate a thought, the ways that a child's understanding of 'love' evolves over time, and what we would want to say about a woman who overcomes prejudice; and she shows us how philosophy sometimes ignores or mischaracterizes human experience. Murdoch helped me to understand why some philosophy feels so removed!

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